23 Dec

So here I am again with one of my frustrations in the webmaster world - link exchangers.
Link exchanging, if done correctly, is a perfectly valid method of building backlinks. However, I receive a few link exchange requests per week, and they are worded so badly. So this article is about the don’ts of link exchanges from my own perspective, drizzled in dry wit and sarcasm.
I just love it when you make no effort to discover my name. Just call me Sir or Webmaster and I’ll pretend you’re being respectful rather than lazy. Even better, call me Madam, and I can then think you’re appealing to the feminine side of my personality.
Just copy and paste any script you have to try and convince me to exchange links. The less effort you make, the more I feel appreciated. I love spelling and grammar mistakes in standard templates too. Those little mistakes can really make my day.
I love nothing more than getting a link to my site that is buried within a deeply nested links page. I feel so valued when you dump a link to my site on a page with 50 other links. If you want to go that extra mile, make sure that there’s no related content on that page. I know for a fact that the Google bots love pages full of links and no content.
I think that my site about eco-gadgets or spy gadgets is perfectly suited to your shop about soaps. Please feel free to flatter me that my website is so wonderful and relevant. If you dress up the complements well enough, I might not even notice the obvious difference in niches.
Having read your standard script offering a low quality link on a heavily link-saturated links page, I really appreciate it when you thank me for my time. Perhaps I’ll start charging for the 5 seconds of time it takes me to realise that your email offers about as much value as a rotten pile of turd.
Finally, make sure you finish your email off with your name and job title. If you smother your job title with a high degree of superiority, I will respect you even more! Call yourself a Link Exchange Executive or Backlink Manager to really impress me.
I wish all my readers a Merry Christmas, and I hope the above amused you!

10 Responses for "Link Exchanging - Lazy Man’s Waste of Time"
Good post Dan, my view is that if you have a decent site the links will come naturally, no need to go chasing pointless links on un-related sites. It’s the rise of these cheap offshore SEO companies that are to blame.
Look forward to seeing what plans you have for the new year!
Have a nice Christmas,
John
Hi John,
I don’t think that you can rely on generating links without effort. If you have a high quality site and you go about promoting that site sensibly, you’ll get decent backlinks!
My summary of 2008 and my plans for 2009 will be on PowerDosh on Tues 30th Dec.
I hope that you have a great Christmas too!
Dan
‘Your site is relevant to our site and would add value to our visitors’
This is a standard sentence in many of the link exchange requests we get though seriously they do not have any similarity with our site.
Interesting post.
I think the picture you selected is a perfect fit for this blog post topic.
Here are my two cents: I HATE when un-related sites want to swap links with my business site. There’s just no way I’m going to have some of those links showing up on my professional business blog. It actually gets pretty irritating but it’s nice to add some humor to it all.
Anyways, hope you had a wonderful and safe holiday!
Jenna
Clearly the fact that a site is on the web is what people consider to be relevant!
I agree wholeheartedly with what Dan is saying. It is the quality of the content on your site that determines if you are going to get links or not. Yes, you can manufacture links, but you’ll only ever do well in a niche market. Want a lot of links? Create something that adds value and that people find useful.
Even though it’s not my opinion, many (most of them actually) people consider that asking for a link exchange is spam, so no matter how nicely you ask them, they either do not respond or even ban you from commenting…
Why should asking for a link be spam? Sure, many emails are written in a spammy way.
Because they say it’s not written anywhere on the website that they exchange links. And many other reasons. Or maybe i just talked to not-so-nice people
Yep, just not nice people I think
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